Other People’s Stories

We’ve been hoping to get some people to tell their own stories here — a couple of friends have told me they don’t want to be the first, or they don’t think having to stay in a job they hate because of the insurance compares to losing a kid.


All the stories are valid. People shouldn’t have to stay in jobs they hate because it’s their only access to health care.

So, I want to tell three stories I know of:

Deamonte Driver

Deamonte was 12 when he died of what began as a toothache. He had Medicaid, but because the reimbursement rates are so low, the Maryland suburb where he lived didn’t have any dentists who would agree to see him.

The tooth got worse and soon he had an abscess.

Still, his mother couldn’t find a dentist to see him.

Then the abscess became infected and the infection spread to his brain. By th time he got help, it was too late to save his life. Doctors tried, and the treatment cost about $250,000. But it failed and Deamonte died in February of 2007.

Having a dentist pull the tooth and put him on a course of antibiotic would have cost a couple hundred dollars and he would be alive and healthy now.

Susan Searcy

This is another case that got some media attention, but then the public got distracted by some celebrity gossip and it faded away.

Susan Searcy was a widow with eight grown children who put off going to the doctor for a year despite abdominal pain and blood in her stools because she didn’t have insurance and she couldn’t afford medical care.

Finally she went to see Dr. Perry Klaasen, who diagnosed her with colon cancer. Of course, the cancer had spread already. She had surgery to remove what cancer they could get and a colonostomy. But she couldn’t afford chemotherapy, so she went home. She died about 18 months after her diagnosis.

The doctor who diagnosed her also had colon cancer that had spread, but he had access to chemotherapy, so he lived another four years.

Klaasen wrote about Searcy in a one-page article for the Journal of the American Medical Association, and the story made a stir for a couple of days.

With both of these tragic stories, I had hoped something would change, but it didn’t. Maybe we need some sort of critical mass of tragic stories.

So, here’s another:

Ewart Ball

I worked with Ewart for five years until he took early retirement a couple years ago. Nice guy, talented photographer.

But Ewart made a couple of bad decisions when he retired. He was sort of rushed — he wanted to avoid being named the paper’s “mo-jo,” or mobile journalist. He would have spent his days driving around and shooting whatever photos he came across and writing short stories to go along with them to be posted on the paper’s Web site.

“I’m too old for that crap,” he said.

So he retired, and he didn’t continue his health insurance because it was too expensive.

A few months later, he was in an accident. He broke his leg, and before the doctors could do surgery, they discovered a problem with his heart. They didn’t treat the heart problem, though, because there was no way for him to pay for it.

Ewart has gotten into the VA system now, but his care isn’t well coordinated and he has developed other health problems because of the injuries he sustained in the accident. And he’s still paying off the care he got after the accident.

OK, he made a bad choice not buying insurance. But that shouldn’t mean he has to suffer the way he has the last year or so. In any other industrialized country in the world, he would have the care he needs. He worked hard all his life and he deserves to have his health problems treated.

But here, we don’t see access to the health care system as a right. If you make a rush decision, if you get divorced, if your job is shipped overseas, you’re screwed.

Just like Deamonte and Susan and Ewart and the 200,000 people who have died in the last eight years because they couldn’t get basic health care.

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Life o’ Mike honors Joe Eblen

Life o' Mike presents its first Michael T. Danforth Community Service Award to Joe Eblen at a luncheon, 1-2:30 p.m. Friday, June 8, in the Friendship Hall of First Congregational Church, 14 Oak St., Asheville.
Joe has spent his life helping children and families, both as a coach and game official for more than 60 years, and as founder of Eblen Charities.
Tickets to the luncheon are $25. To reserve a seat, call 828-243-6712 or e-mail lifeomike@gmail.com

Patient Pals & Family Friends

Life o' Mike has a peer support program for people with one or more serious or chronic medical issues or disabilities.

We aim to reduce isolation and fear among people who have conditions, including psychiatric illness, HIV/AIDS, diabetes, mild dementia or other cognitive disorder or disability, thereby reducing depression and complications as people learn to improve self-management of their medical conditions.

Patient Pals help alleviate feelings of isolation and frustration. They can help people develop a list of questions to ask the doctor and then accompany the person to the doctor to make sure all the questions are answered, taking notes to be sure the person understands the doctor’s answers.

Our trained volunteers also accompany their “Pals” to art exhibits, movies and walks outdoors, meet for coffee, call to check in and more.

Our Pals have experienced weight loss, improvement in diabetes, HIV, psoriasis, depression and more, just because they have someone who cares about them. Some relationships develop into longer-term friendships; other Pals move on to more independent lives.

Family Friends are there to help caregivers and other family members grow into their new role.

We need volunteers, who are asked to donate a minimum of one hour a week. Training is free and includes information on active listening, ways to help and when to know more help is needed.

And of course, we need funding.

To learn more, call Leslie Boyd at 828-243-6712 or e-mail lifeomike@gmail.com.

Start From Seed

Life o' Mike has a new program- Start from Seed (SFS).
SFS is a volunteer doula program aimed at providing non-medical, comprehensive support to low income, high-risk women and families of Buncombe County focusing on three areas:

1. We help new doulas with certification and training in return for their participation as a volunteer doula for SFS

2. We mentor volunteer doulas with their first few clients

3. Our volunteer doulas provide birth and postpartum doula services to low income, high risk moms, providing support and tools to empower them as a new parent.

A birth doula is a trained and experienced professional who provides continuous physical, emotional and informational support to the mother before, during and just after birth; a postpartum doula provides emotional and practical support during the postpartum period.

Start from Seed clients are referred to us from the Buncombe County Department of Health’s Nurse-Family Partnership Program, Western North Carolina Community Health Services, and Mission Hospital. The Program is intended and designed for growing clients’ inner strength and helping them gain empowerment to help them cope with the emotional, physical and mental challenges of childbirth, labor, and motherhood.

Our new moms and their infants have many needs. If you would like to help them get off to a good start, please visit our Start from Seed web site: Start from Seed, or call Program Director Chelsea Kouns at 804-814-9946.

Events in the community

Free birth and labor classes

Peaceful Beginning Doula Services holds free birth forums, Peaceful Birth, 6:30-8 p.m. the last Thursday of every month (except November) at Spa Materna, 640 Merrimon Ave., above The Hop, in Asheville.
All are welcome, expectant women and their partners are encouraged to attend anytime during their pregnancy. We also encourage doulas and other maternal/child professionals to attend and share in the discussions. The forums are "birth circle" style, focusing on normal birth which follows the Lamaze Six Care Practices for Healthy Birth. The forums are led by certified and experienced educators.

NAMI Family-to-Family Class

NAMI of Western Carolina holds 12-week classes for families and caregivers of individuals with a severe mental illness 6-8:30 p.m. Mondays at Charles George VA Medical Center, 1100 Tunnel Road in Asheville. The course covers major mental illnesses and self-care. Registration required. Info at 828-299-9596 or rohaus@charter.net.

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