Cornering politicians

I know a lot of politicians, and I like a lot of them personally. I don’t agree with all of them of course. Lately, though — since Mike died, to be specific, I’ve had some interesting discussions with them.

I was in an editorial board meeting week before last with our Congressman, Heath Shuler, a Blue Dog Democrat. That means he’s pretty conservative on a lot of issues.

We went around the table with questions, and when it got to me, I was all about health care.  Shuler talked about getting more children covered under the various states’ SCHIP programs, and working to get more unds for Medicare so more older adults would be covered.

After the meeting, I went over to him and said, “Nothing you talked about would have saved my son’s life.”

He looked shocked.

But he needed to know that  people ages 18-64 need coverage too. No child who loses a parent is going to do well. No mother who loses an adult child will care if she has her own coverage. Everyone, everyone, needs health care.

He agreed to meet with me to talk about the need for access to health care.

Shuler’s opponent in the election, Carl Mumpower, is a man I admire for his honesty and his dedication to helping his constituents. As a city councilman in Asheville, he has helped people who had nowhere to turn again and again. It’s not grandstanding — it’s just who he is.

But he told me he’s all about the free market, and I told him, with all due respect, I can’t vote for him because the free market hasn’t worked. The system needs more than tweaking.

I corralled Nathan Ramsey, the head of our county commissioners, at 10K walkathon for Eblen Charities. Nathan is a Rpublican. He’s a dairy farmer and a truly decent human being. We spent most of the 10K talking about health care and why the free market isn’t working.

Buncombe County has some great initiatives, and if Mike had lived here, he probably would have gotten the colonoscopy he needed before his cancer had spread. The county medical society has organized the charity care nearly all doctors give and people can get the speciaty care they need, even if they can’t pay for it.

Project Access has spread to a lot of other cities and counties, but it has its limitations, and I’m not so sure doctors and hospitals should be asked to bear the burden that our government fails to take on. They offer many millions of dollars in care, but it isn’t the way to fix the system because it’ local.

Nathan and I talked about the Massachusetts plan of making people buy health insurance, with the premiums subsidized for people with low incomes.

By the end of the two-hour walk, Nathan and I had agreed on a plan we could both support, That public-private partnership wasn’t the perfect fix for either one of us, but it was something we both could live with.

if we can do it, why can’t politicians in Washington? 

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Patient Pals & Family Friends

Life o' Mike has a peer support program for people with one or more serious or chronic medical issues or disabilities.

We aim to reduce isolation and fear among people who have conditions, including psychiatric illness, HIV/AIDS, diabetes, mild dementia or other cognitive disorder or disability, thereby reducing depression and complications as people learn to improve self-management of their medical conditions.

Patient Pals help alleviate feelings of isolation and frustration. They can help people develop a list of questions to ask the doctor and then accompany the person to the doctor to make sure all the questions are answered, taking notes to be sure the person understands the doctor’s answers.

Our trained volunteers also accompany their “Pals” to art exhibits, movies and walks outdoors, meet for coffee, call to check in and more.

Our Pals have experienced weight loss, improvement in diabetes, HIV, psoriasis, depression and more, just because they have someone who cares about them. Some relationships develop into longer-term friendships; other Pals move on to more independent lives.

Family Friends are there to help caregivers and other family members grow into their new role.

We need volunteers, who are asked to donate a minimum of one hour a week. Training is free and includes information on active listening, ways to help and when to know more help is needed.

And of course, we need funding.

To learn more, call Leslie Boyd at 828-243-6712 or e-mail lifeomike@gmail.com.

Start From Seed

Life o' Mike has a new program- Start from Seed (SFS).
SFS is a volunteer doula program aimed at providing non-medical, comprehensive support to low income, high-risk women and families of Buncombe County focusing on three areas:

1. We help new doulas with certification and training in return for their participation as a volunteer doula for SFS

2. We mentor volunteer doulas with their first few clients

3. Our volunteer doulas provide birth and postpartum doula services to low income, high risk moms, providing support and tools to empower them as a new parent.

A birth doula is a trained and experienced professional who provides continuous physical, emotional and informational support to the mother before, during and just after birth; a postpartum doula provides emotional and practical support during the postpartum period.

Start from Seed clients are referred to us from the Buncombe County Department of Health’s Nurse-Family Partnership Program, Western North Carolina Community Health Services, and Mission Hospital. The Program is intended and designed for growing clients’ inner strength and helping them gain empowerment to help them cope with the emotional, physical and mental challenges of childbirth, labor, and motherhood.

To learn more, visit www.startfromseed.org, or call Program Director Chelsea Kouns at 804-814-9946.

Events in the community

Free birth and labor classes

Peaceful Beginning Doula Services holds free birth forums, Peaceful Birth, 6:30-8 p.m. the last Thursday of every month (except November) at Spa Materna, 640 Merrimon Ave., above The Hop, in Asheville.
All are welcome, expectant women and their partners are encouraged to attend anytime during their pregnancy. We also encourage doulas and other maternal/child professionals to attend and share in the discussions. The forums are "birth circle" style, focusing on normal birth which follows the Lamaze Six Care Practices for Healthy Birth. The forums are led by certified and experienced educators.

NAMI Family-to-Family Class

NAMI of Western Carolina holds 12-week classes for families and caregivers of individuals with a severe mental illness 6-8:30 p.m. Mondays at Charles George VA Medical Center, 1100 Tunnel Road in Asheville. The course covers major mental illnesses and self-care. Registration required. Info at 828-299-9596 or rohaus@charter.net.

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