The rally and the trip home

Joe and Barbara Coulson hold signs made by Life o' Mike board member Chrystal Cook and written by me. Her photo was taken by dozens of photographers as she held the sign.

Joe and Barbara Coulson hold signs made by Life o' Mike board member Chrystal Cook and written by me. Her photo was taken by dozens of photographers as she held the sign.

I know it’s Tom Coulson and I can’t get the photo caption to update. Sorry, Tom.

What a day yesterday was. We had 1,000 people and we’re going to do it again in October. No date was set yesterday, but I’ll post it as soon as I know.

I felt like an 18-year-old hippie again. We chanted and waved our signs and told our stories. It was amazing.

We got on the bus at 6 p.m. and changed drivers in Roanoke. Our first driver for the evening, Joe, was courteous, friendly and respectful — and probably more ready for a party than we poor, tired folks were.

Our second driver was different.

I have to admit I lost it when, knowing who was on the bus, he was talking on the phone in a loud voice, espousing hatred toward Obama, claiming Joe Wilson has apologized all he needs to because he was right and talking about how this crisis will result in the “population reduction” we need.

When he stopped the bus, I took my 8×10 picture of my son and went outside with him.
I showed him Mike’s picture and said, “I want you to see this. This is my dead son. He died because he couldn’t get medical care. He is the face of your ‘population reduction.’ I do this work so that your children won’t be among the dead and dying because I can tell you there is nothing worse than seeing your child die because of an uncaring, unfair, immoral system. I adored my son and I miss him every day.
“You are on the job and you know your passengers’ passion. To say the things you did on the phone in full voice — I heard you even though I was wearing earplugs — shows a lack of respect that I find appalling. You are entitled to your political opinion. It’s OK that you disagree with me. But you are on the job right now and your behavior was rude, disrespectful and unprofessional.
“Look again at the face of ‘population reduction’ and pray someone you love isn’t next. And remember I’m fighting for everyone — even the people who disagree with me, and try to have respect for that.”
I turned and got back on the bus as he stood there, slack-jawed, and I reported the incident to his employer this morning. I asked her not to fire him, but to tell him how important it is to respect her customers and their passions, even if he disagrees with them, by keeping his mouth shut while he’s on the job.
I left my job as a newspaper reporter so that I could follow my passion. He’s free to express his opinion, go to Tea Party rallies and wave signs and shout, but not while he’s on the job.
The incident put a damper on the day, and I cried for about an hour — probably because I hadn’t slept in about 40 hours when this happened.
But it shows we have a lot to overcome, and we won’t do it by using fear tactics or getting in people’s faces.
We have to tell our stories and let people see this this is a moral issue and by calling for America to become all it can be.

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