The rally and the trip home
By
leslie ⋅ September 14, 2009
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Joe and Barbara Coulson hold signs made by Life o' Mike board member Chrystal Cook and written by me. Her photo was taken by dozens of photographers as she held the sign.
I know it’s Tom Coulson and I can’t get the photo caption to update. Sorry, Tom.
What a day yesterday was. We had 1,000 people and we’re going to do it again in October. No date was set yesterday, but I’ll post it as soon as I know.
I felt like an 18-year-old hippie again. We chanted and waved our signs and told our stories. It was amazing.
We got on the bus at 6 p.m. and changed drivers in Roanoke. Our first driver for the evening, Joe, was courteous, friendly and respectful — and probably more ready for a party than we poor, tired folks were.
Our second driver was different.
I have to admit I lost it when, knowing who was on the bus, he was talking on the phone in a loud voice, espousing hatred toward Obama, claiming Joe Wilson has apologized all he needs to because he was right and talking about how this crisis will result in the “population reduction” we need.
When he stopped the bus, I took my 8×10 picture of my son and went outside with him.
I showed him Mike’s picture and said, “I want you to see this. This is my dead son. He died because he couldn’t get medical care. He is the face of your ‘population reduction.’ I do this work so that your children won’t be among the dead and dying because I can tell you there is nothing worse than seeing your child die because of an uncaring, unfair, immoral system. I adored my son and I miss him every day.
“You are on the job and you know your passengers’ passion. To say the things you did on the phone in full voice — I heard you even though I was wearing earplugs — shows a lack of respect that I find appalling. You are entitled to your political opinion. It’s OK that you disagree with me. But you are on the job right now and your behavior was rude, disrespectful and unprofessional.
“Look again at the face of ‘population reduction’ and pray someone you love isn’t next. And remember I’m fighting for everyone — even the people who disagree with me, and try to have respect for that.”
I turned and got back on the bus as he stood there, slack-jawed, and I reported the incident to his employer this morning. I asked her not to fire him, but to tell him how important it is to respect her customers and their passions, even if he disagrees with them, by keeping his mouth shut while he’s on the job.
I left my job as a newspaper reporter so that I could follow my passion. He’s free to express his opinion, go to Tea Party rallies and wave signs and shout, but not while he’s on the job.
The incident put a damper on the day, and I cried for about an hour — probably because I hadn’t slept in about 40 hours when this happened.
But it shows we have a lot to overcome, and we won’t do it by using fear tactics or getting in people’s faces.
We have to tell our stories and let people see this this is a moral issue and by calling for America to become all it can be.
Discussion
I’m so sorry about that Leslie! I had no idea that was going on, because I was at the very back of the bus! You handled the situation wonderfully. While you may have been greatly pained by this man’s insensitivity, maybe he will think about what you said, and it will turn his “ugly” heart around. One can only hope!
I am so glad I found out about your bus trip and didn’t drive, as originally planned. I was tired and a bit achey by the time we got home, but I wouldn’t trade the experience for anything in the world! It is a day I will long remember!! Thank you for all you do! Blessings upon you…
We were concerned when the bus stopped and knew that the bus driver’s explanation of a fuel stop did not make sense. I regret that you had to handle this after all the work you did to make this event a success. I’m appreciative of your efforts and felt our work was worth the trip. What an adventure!
Actually, it was a fuel stop. There was some kind of problem with getting fuel at the first station.
The rally was a wonderful experience for me. I have really been getting tired of all the negative press about health care and I was happy to actually DO something. I enjoyed meeting people from all over the country who think the way I do. People like the lady who flew in from Kansas by herself, or the wonderful little oriental lady whom we ran into on the bus parking deck. She had driven down from New York and was just arriving and the rally was already over. So Sorry! We told her there will be a bigger one in October. I hope she comes back.
Leslie,
As always, I am so proud to call you “Friend”!!! Good for you to set the disrespectful driver straight about his on the clock behaviours!!! If more people would speak up, our world would surely be a better place.
Thanks,
Marey Coates