Archive for April, 2010

A little good news about the NC budget …

State budgets across the country are still struggling and legislatures are looking for cuts in all departments. I spoke with NC Secretary Lanier Cansler of the Department of Health and Human Services this morning, and he talked about the hard choices. “We’re having to look more closely at everything,” he said. “There is abuse, and [...]

Times are tough; hit the most vulnerable

Once again, the state budget aims to cut programs, staff and funding to the Department of Health and Human Services, and raise fees for such things as copies of birth and death certificates — things all people have to have. When Mike died, everyone, even the cable company and the phone service provider, wanted an [...]

Who owns fast food?

According to the American Journal of Public Health, health insurance companies own $1.88 billion in stock in fast food companies. Although people can be responsible about limiting fast food, research has shown that fast-food  is linked to obesity and cardiovascular disease, two leading causes of death, and contributes to the poor health of children. Fast food [...]

The new Campaign for Better Care

Access to health care for millions of Americans is a good thing, but it is just a start.  Life o’ Mike is joining with organizations around North Carolina and the nation to help improve the quality of communications and care people receive when they get into care.  The NC Justice Center’s Health Access Coalition, of [...]

Can they do that?

I’ve been in touch with my state senator’s office about how our insurance company delayed a critical medical test and nearly cost him his life. Sen. Nesbitt’s office got in touch with the state Department of Insurance to ask whether what Blue Cross/Blue Shield did was legal. Here was the department’s reply: ” Several attempts [...]

Just because I was stupid …

Watching a documentary on Woodstock last night, I heard adults my age talking about using pot and drinking at the event, and I wondered what they told their kids. I didn’t drink often when I was young — I started my glass of wine in the evening ritual about 20 years ago — but I [...]

Preventive measures

I love riding my bike here on the Georgia coast. It’s so flat I can ride forever, I think. I’ve been trying to master hills back home in the mountains, getting a little better as time goes by. But here, I can just go and go and go … Danny bought bikes for himself, Jennifer [...]

Remembering Mike’s dad

  My boys’ father died this morning. He was 62. He survived Stage 3 colon cancer for 10 years, and died what seems to be a preventable death. Danny had a premonition. He said if he came up for Mike Day his father would die. He was in the hospital being treated for a colon [...]

It’s finally spring

Yesterday was beautiful for our Mike Day activities, and it was lovely again today, so instead of going into the office, I played in the garden. The kids left early today, so Rob and I had the day to ourselves. We took a walk at the NC Arboretum, which the kids rarely want to do [...]

Laughter and tears

It was nearly a perfect Mike Day. We got all the way up Route 151 to find the Blue Ridge Parkway closed. We couldn’t get to Black Balsam. So, we went to the edge of the Davidson River in Brevard and had our little toast to Mike there. It’s a trout stream next to a [...]

Help Life o’ Mike

We need your help now more than ever. Your tax-deductible donation will help us Patient Pals and Family Friends to more people in need of peer support. Please consider a gift in honor or in memory of a loved one. Donate here or mail your donation to Life o' Mike, PO Box 1213, Asheville, NC 28802.

Patient Pals & Family Friends

Life o' Mike has a peer support program for people with one or more serious or chronic medical issues or disabilities.

We aim to reduce isolation and fear among people who have conditions, including psychiatric illness, HIV/AIDS, diabetes, mild dementia or other cognitive disorder or disability, thereby reducing depression and complications as people learn to improve self-management of their medical conditions.

Patient Pals help alleviate feelings of isolation and frustration. They can help people develop a list of questions to ask the doctor and then accompany the person to the doctor to make sure all the questions are answered, taking notes to be sure the person understands the doctor’s answers.

Our trained volunteers also accompany their “Pals” to art exhibits, movies and walks outdoors, meet for coffee, call to check in and more.

Our Pals have experienced weight loss, improvement in diabetes, HIV, psoriasis, depression and more, just because they have someone who cares about them. Some relationships develop into longer-term friendships; other Pals move on to more independent lives.

Family Friends are there to help caregivers and other family members grow into their new role.

We need volunteers, who are asked to donate a minimum of one hour a week. Training is free and includes information on active listening, ways to help and when to know more help is needed.

And of course, we need funding.

To learn more, call Leslie Boyd at 828-243-6712 or e-mail lifeomike@gmail.com.

Start From Seed

Life o' Mike has a new program- Start from Seed (SFS).
SFS is a volunteer doula program aimed at providing non-medical, comprehensive support to low income, high-risk women and families of Buncombe County focusing on three areas:

1. We help new doulas with certification and training in return for their participation as a volunteer doula for SFS

2. We mentor volunteer doulas with their first few clients

3. Our volunteer doulas provide birth and postpartum doula services to low income, high risk moms, providing support and tools to empower them as a new parent.

A birth doula is a trained and experienced professional who provides continuous physical, emotional and informational support to the mother before, during and just after birth; a postpartum doula provides emotional and practical support during the postpartum period.

Start from Seed clients are referred to us from the Buncombe County Department of Health’s Nurse-Family Partnership Program, Western North Carolina Community Health Services, and Mission Hospital. The Program is intended and designed for growing clients’ inner strength and helping them gain empowerment to help them cope with the emotional, physical and mental challenges of childbirth, labor, and motherhood.

To learn more, visit www.startfromseed.org, or call Program Director Chelsea Kouns at 804-814-9946.

Events in the community

Free birth and labor classes

Peaceful Beginning Doula Services holds free birth forums, Peaceful Birth, 6:30-8 p.m. the last Thursday of every month (except November) at Spa Materna, 640 Merrimon Ave., above The Hop, in Asheville.
All are welcome, expectant women and their partners are encouraged to attend anytime during their pregnancy. We also encourage doulas and other maternal/child professionals to attend and share in the discussions. The forums are "birth circle" style, focusing on normal birth which follows the Lamaze Six Care Practices for Healthy Birth. The forums are led by certified and experienced educators.

NAMI Family-to-Family Class

NAMI of Western Carolina holds 12-week classes for families and caregivers of individuals with a severe mental illness 6-8:30 p.m. Mondays at Charles George VA Medical Center, 1100 Tunnel Road in Asheville. The course covers major mental illnesses and self-care. Registration required. Info at 828-299-9596 or rohaus@charter.net.

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