How to distract people from the real issues

When I heard a group of Muslims was going to build a 13-story mosque at Ground Zero, I wondered how they got the permits. I know New York and I know it can take months, if not years, to get all your permits in a row.

Well, it turns out, the group wants to build a community center with a pool, a basketball court, a commercial kitchen for a culinary school and a place to pray. And it’s two blocks away from Ground Zero — it can’t even be seen from the site. It’s being built on the site of a building that’s been abandoned since 9/11, in a neighborhood that has suffered blight ever since the attacks.

The group’s imam, or prayer leader, has helped the FBI in its search for radical Muslims, and members of this group were among the innocents who died in the attacks.  A few bad people in a religion doesn’t make the whole religion bad.

This is happening in the middle of Ramadan, the holiest month of the Muslim year. During this month, Muslims fast from sunup to sundown. They break the fast with a prayer, and then eat a date before having a celebratory meal. I’ve observed a day of Ramadan with a group of Muslims and they were not bad people. In fact, it was one of the most deeply spiritual experiences of my life.

The imam of that group told me he believes people who commit terrorists acts are not religious people, but are people looking for their own power because they don’t understand the power of Allah.

So, why the outcry? It’s because the whole thing has been played to people’s emotions. There is no mosque at Ground Zero. It is a community center two blocks away in a blighted neighborhood that needs something good to happen in it.

In other words, this isn’t a real issue. I has been used to drum up emotions in advance of the midterm elections so people will be distracted from the dismal economy, the lack of jobs and the lack of transparency in the BP Gulf disaster — and in the lack of ability in Washington to get past political roadblocks and pass meaningful legislation to protect Americans from the likes of BP, predatory lenders and insurance companies.

Lobbyists still write laws, and big insurance is spending just as much money now — more, in fact — to buy the people who are writing the rules of health reform. The law left a lot open to interpretation by the Department of Health and Human Services and by the states, and lobbyists are wooing them now. It’s a lot less obvious, so it’s more difficult for us to stop.

Meanwhile, Republicans blocked the extension to unemployment insurance benefits, calling people who can’t find a job lazy as big businesses sit on tens of billions of dollars and big banks refuse to lend money to small businesses.

The worst oil spill in American history may have stopped gushing, but we don’t talk about the damage that will take decades to clean up because we’re all caught up in this fake “issue.”

We’re too busy talking about whether a group of people can practice their First Amendment rights two blocks from sacred ground. It isn’t an issue; it’s a distraction.

Let’s start talking about the mess in Washington and not be distracted by what Mike used to call a “shiny issue.”

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Life o’ Mike honors Joe Eblen

Life o' Mike presents its first Michael T. Danforth Community Service Award to Joe Eblen at a luncheon, 1-2:30 p.m. Friday, June 8, in the Friendship Hall of First Congregational Church, 14 Oak St., Asheville.
Joe has spent his life helping children and families, both as a coach and game official for more than 60 years, and as founder of Eblen Charities.
Tickets to the luncheon are $25. To reserve a seat, call 828-243-6712 or e-mail lifeomike@gmail.com

Patient Pals & Family Friends

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We aim to reduce isolation and fear among people who have conditions, including psychiatric illness, HIV/AIDS, diabetes, mild dementia or other cognitive disorder or disability, thereby reducing depression and complications as people learn to improve self-management of their medical conditions.

Patient Pals help alleviate feelings of isolation and frustration. They can help people develop a list of questions to ask the doctor and then accompany the person to the doctor to make sure all the questions are answered, taking notes to be sure the person understands the doctor’s answers.

Our trained volunteers also accompany their “Pals” to art exhibits, movies and walks outdoors, meet for coffee, call to check in and more.

Our Pals have experienced weight loss, improvement in diabetes, HIV, psoriasis, depression and more, just because they have someone who cares about them. Some relationships develop into longer-term friendships; other Pals move on to more independent lives.

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Start From Seed

Life o' Mike has a new program- Start from Seed (SFS).
SFS is a volunteer doula program aimed at providing non-medical, comprehensive support to low income, high-risk women and families of Buncombe County focusing on three areas:

1. We help new doulas with certification and training in return for their participation as a volunteer doula for SFS

2. We mentor volunteer doulas with their first few clients

3. Our volunteer doulas provide birth and postpartum doula services to low income, high risk moms, providing support and tools to empower them as a new parent.

A birth doula is a trained and experienced professional who provides continuous physical, emotional and informational support to the mother before, during and just after birth; a postpartum doula provides emotional and practical support during the postpartum period.

Start from Seed clients are referred to us from the Buncombe County Department of Health’s Nurse-Family Partnership Program, Western North Carolina Community Health Services, and Mission Hospital. The Program is intended and designed for growing clients’ inner strength and helping them gain empowerment to help them cope with the emotional, physical and mental challenges of childbirth, labor, and motherhood.

Our new moms and their infants have many needs. If you would like to help them get off to a good start, please visit our Start from Seed web site: Start from Seed, or call Program Director Chelsea Kouns at 804-814-9946.

Events in the community

Free birth and labor classes

Peaceful Beginning Doula Services holds free birth forums, Peaceful Birth, 6:30-8 p.m. the last Thursday of every month (except November) at Spa Materna, 640 Merrimon Ave., above The Hop, in Asheville.
All are welcome, expectant women and their partners are encouraged to attend anytime during their pregnancy. We also encourage doulas and other maternal/child professionals to attend and share in the discussions. The forums are "birth circle" style, focusing on normal birth which follows the Lamaze Six Care Practices for Healthy Birth. The forums are led by certified and experienced educators.

NAMI Family-to-Family Class

NAMI of Western Carolina holds 12-week classes for families and caregivers of individuals with a severe mental illness 6-8:30 p.m. Mondays at Charles George VA Medical Center, 1100 Tunnel Road in Asheville. The course covers major mental illnesses and self-care. Registration required. Info at 828-299-9596 or rohaus@charter.net.

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